Just before "you do", please remember these: Divine blueprints for a godly relationship:​

Job 9:10 He does great things past finding out, Yes, wonders without number.

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“Genesis 2:18 (NKJV) 18 And the LORD God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.”

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All glory and honor to the Lord our God for the privilege of being together to worship Him again. Our God is gracious and merciful. We all are a proof of His divine favor.

Now, as you can remember, the month of May gives us the opportunity to focus on Godly relationships. You see, in any relationship you may be involved in, the word of God is clear and direct on what God's plan and agenda is, regarding those relationships.

In a world filled with conflicting messages about love and relationships, God has provided a clear and perfect blueprint for how a relationship should look—one that reflects His holiness, love, and purpose. A godly relationship is not just about emotional connection or physical attraction alone; it is primarily about glorifying God together and growing in Him as one. These explain what Godly relations looks like:

1. Christ at the Center. The foundation of any godly relationship must be Jesus Christ. Colossians 3:17 says, “And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus...” When both individuals are pursuing Christ first, their relationship becomes a space where God’s presence can dwell and guide. A godly relationship doesn’t pull you away from God—it pushes you closer to Him.

2. Pursuing Righteousness Together - 2 Timothy 2:22 encourages us to “flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.” A relationship rooted in God prioritizes purity, integrity, and accountability. It seeks to honor God not just in public, but especially in private.

3. Mutual Submission and Respect - Ephesians 5:21 says, “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” God’s blueprint includes mutual respect and humility. Each person serves the other selflessly, not for personal gain but out of love and reverence for Christ. This kind of relationship mirrors the love between Christ and His Church.

4. Honest Communication and Forgiveness - Proverbs 24:26 says, “An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.” Godly relationships are marked by open, honest, and grace-filled communication. No relationship is perfect, but one built on God’s Word will always return to forgiveness, just as Christ forgives us (Ephesians 4:32).

5. Shared Purpose and Vision - Amos 3:3 asks, “Can two walk together unless they are agreed?” A godly relationship is one where both partners walk in agreement with God’s calling and purpose. They encourage one another in faith, serve together in ministry, and dream together with God at the helm.

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Today, before our very own Pastor Ibk blesses us, we will have a quick sit down together with the Tunsins family, to discuss some direct and frank issues regarding godly unions.

Dear RH, in conclusion, God’s design for relationships is intentional and holy. When we follow His blueprint, we will be able to build relationships that last, that heal, and that shine as a testimony to His love. Let your relationship reflect heaven—full of grace, truth, and agape love.

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Again, welcome to The Redemption House.​